Trauma-Informed. Neuroscience-Guided.
Move Beyond Survival
Healing from trauma isn't about forgetting what happened. It's about helping your brain, body, and nervous system learn that you no longer have to live in survival mode.
I provide trauma-informed, neuroscience-guided counselling and psychotherapy for people navigating trauma, grief, anxiety, burnout, PTSD, ADHD, relationship challenges, and life transitions.
In-person therapy in Nanaimo, BC • Virtual across British Columbia

When Survival Becomes Your Default
Understanding how trauma, chronic stress, grief, and burnout affect the brain, body, and nervous system.
Sometimes survival mode isn't obvious. It doesn't always look like crisis—it can become the way you move through everyday life. You may recognize yourself in some of these experiences:
You're always "on." Even when you're safe, you are hypervigilant - your mind and body struggle to relax.​
You appear calm and capable on the outside, but internally you're exhausted, overwhelmed, or running on empty.
You replay conversations, overthink decisions, or anticipate what could go wrong long after the moment has passed.
You have it together at work, but find yourself emotionally depleted or irritable at home.
You react more strongly than you'd like, then wonder, "Why did I respond that way?"
You're surviving instead of living.
Whether you're navigating trauma, grief, burnout, hypervigilance, anxiety, relationship challenges, or simply feeling stuck in survival mode, therapy offers an opportunity to better understand yourself through a trauma-informed, neuroscience-guided lens. Together, we'll explore how your brain, nervous system, and protective patterns have adapted to help you survive, while building the safety, flexibility, and resilience needed to move beyond survival and reconnect with yourself.

From War to Crisis Communication to Counselling & Psychotherapy
Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) • Canadian Certified Counsellor (CCC) • EMDR Certified Therapist
For nearly two decades, I worked in high-pressure roles in communications, crisis response, public safety, and government—helping people navigate some of life's most challenging moments. Long before becoming a therapist, I understood what it meant to live in a constant state of readiness.
I spent nearly a decade growing up in a war-affected environment, including on air force bases where my father served as a fighter pilot and base commander. Later, my career took me from communications and government relations to supporting public safety, emergency preparedness, and national priorities, including with the Office of the Prime Minister of Canada and as an Information Officer within Emergency Operations Centres during crisis activations.
Those experiences gave me more than an understanding of trauma—they taught me the hidden cost of always being the one who keeps going, stays composed, and carries the weight for others.
Today, I help individuals, youth, couples, and families navigate trauma, grief, anxiety, burnout, ADHD, relationship challenges, and life's major transitions through trauma-informed, neuroscience-guided psychotherapy. Rather than asking, "What's wrong with you?" I help you understand how your brain, nervous system, and protective responses adapted to help you survive—and how those same systems can support healing, resilience, and lasting change.
My work is shaped by three perspectives that rarely come together: lived experience, leadership in high-pressure environments, and advanced training in trauma, ongoing studies in neuroscience, and evidence-based psychotherapy. It's this combination that allows me to meet people with both clinical expertise and genuine understanding.

Farnaz Farrokhi-Holmes, MAPC, MACP
Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC)
Canadian Certified Counsellor (CCC)
EMDR Therapist
Hi, I'm Farnaz.
Education & Professional Training
My approach is informed by graduate-level education, advanced training in trauma therapy, and ongoing study in neuroscience to provide thoughtful, evidence-informed care.

​Education:
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Master of Counselling Psychology — Yorkville University
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Master of Arts in Communications — Royal Roads University
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MicroBachelors® Program in Neuroscience (In Progress) — Harvard University

Advanced Clinical Training & Certifications:​
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Certificate in Cognitive Psychology & Neuropsychology — University of Cambridge
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Certificate in Workplace Mental Health Leadership — Queen's University
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Certificate, Comprehensive EMDR Basic Training through the EMDR Centre of Canada
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Certificate, Advanced Integration of Internal Family Systems (IFS) and EMDR for Trauma Treatment

Why Clients Choose to Work With Me

Trauma-Informed
We explore how your experiences shaped the way your brain, body, and nervous system learned to survive.

Nervous System Focused
Learn how your nervous system responds to stress and build greater flexibility, resilience, and capacity.

Evidenced-Based
Integrating ACT, CBT, CPT, DBT, EMDR, IFS, somatic techniques, and strength-based therapies to meet your unique therapy needs.

Lived Experience
My work is informed by lived experience, high-pressure leadership, and years supporting people through crisis and adversity.

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