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Mind-Body Well-Being in Nanaimo, BC. Professional Counselling, Yoga, and Massage—All Integrated Under One Roof.


Virtual Appointments Available in BC and Canada-Wide

mEET THE Soma House TEAM

Farnaz Farrokhi-Holmes, Clinical Counsellor, CCC & RCC., MA Comms, MACP

Pronouns: She/Her | Your Counsellor Near Me  

 

Hi, I’m Farnaz!

 

I’m a Canadian Certified Counsellor (CCC), Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC), an EMDR Therapist, and the founder of Soma House Counselling & Wellness—a space designed to feel more like home than a clinic.


I support individuals navigating trauma, anxiety, burnout, grief and loss, ADHD, relationships, and life transitions—including high-conflict divorce, co-parenting, and blended-family dynamics—as well as those working in high-demand, high-risk, or trauma-exposed professions. I am also an Occupationally Aware Healthcare Provider—trained through Wounded Warriors Canada and First Responder Health—with a focus on understanding the realities, pressures, and long-term impact of these roles. 


My approach is trauma-informed, directive, and collaborative—grounded in a biopsychosocial, mind–body lens and informed by neuroscience. This means we work to understand how your brain and nervous system have adapted to your experiences, and how patterns like anxiety, overwhelm, or shutdown make sense in that context. Together, we focus on supporting nervous system regulation and creating meaningful, lasting change. 


I hold a Master’s in Counselling Psychology, a Master’s in Communications, and am an EMDRIA-trained EMDR therapist. Together, we work to make sense of your experiences, support nervous system regulation, and gently move through what feels overwhelming—so you can reconnect with yourself and feel more like you again.

Lived & Professional Experience

 

I bring both lived and professional experience to my work.


I spent nearly a decade growing up in a war-affected environment, including on air force bases where my father served as a fighter pilot and base commander. This shaped my understanding of military culture, operational demands, and the expectation to stay composed under pressure—and how that impacts individuals and families.


Before becoming a clinical counsellor, I spent nearly 20 years in communications and government relations across multiple levels of government, including with the Office of the Prime Minister of Canada. My work focused on public safety, emergency preparedness, foreign affairs, and crisis communications, including serving within Emergency Operations Centres (EOCs) during crisis and emergency activations.


Today, I work closely with military members, veterans, first responders, and trauma-exposed professionals, and am an Occupationally Aware Healthcare Provider—trained through Wounded Warriors Canada and First Responder Health to understand the realities, pressures, and long-term impact of these roles.


I understand what it means to hold it all together under pressure—and the cost of carrying that weight while still showing up for family, relationships, and life.


These experiences shape how I work. I support you in navigating complex situations, resolving conflict, setting boundaries, and making sense of who you are during stressful or life-changing moments. Together, we slow things down, identify what matters most, and move forward with clarity and confidence.


Using evidence-based approaches, I support you in working through what feels uncomfortable so you can build awareness, resilience, and a stronger connection to yourself.

Areas of Focus:  

 

  • Anxiety, Stress & Emotional Well-Being
    Anxiety • Burnout • Grief & Loss (including complex, anticipatory & non-death losses) • Depression • Emotional Regulation • Self-Esteem & Imposter Syndrome
     
  • ADHD, Neurodiversity & Confidence
    ADHD • Executive Functioning • Neurodiversity-Affirming Care • Identity & Inner Child Work
     
  • Trauma, PTSD & Complex Relationships
    Trauma • PTSD • Nervous System Regulation • Narcissistic Abuse Recovery • High-Conflict Divorce •  Survivors of Sexual Abuse and Assault
     
  • Family, Relationships & Life Transitions
    Co-parenting • Blended Families • Families of Military & First Responders • Separation/Divorce • Relationship Patterns • Spiritual Growth • Major Life Changes
     
  • Work, Leadership & Women’s Health
    Workplace Stress • Leadership Support • Peri/Menopause • Reproductive Challenges • Caregiver Stress • Support for High-Stress Professions


Therapeutic Modalities:

  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
  • Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
  • Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT)
  • Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)
  • Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
  • Experiential Therapy
  • Gestalt Therapy
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Narrative Therapy
  • Play and Art Therapy
  • Solution-Focused Therapy (SFT)
  • Somatic Therapy
  • Trauma-Informed Care


Education:

  • Master’s Degree in Counselling Psychology
  • Master’s Degree in Communications


Session Types: Individual adults, children, youth, couples, and family counselling. In-person or online.


Contact & Hours of Operation:


<<Soma House Counselling & Wellness>>


  • Location: In-person and virtual in Nanaimo; virtual across British Columbia and unregulated provinces 
  • Practice Days: Tuesdays to Saturdays 
  • Contact: Farnaz@somahouse.ca | 250-228-7662 (SOMA) 
  • Website: www.somahouse.ca 


<<Island Clinical Counselling (ICC)>>

  • Location & Practice Days: Tuesdays, Wednesdays (online only), and Thursdays, in Duncan; (in-person & virtual sessions offered in both locations.) 
  • Contact: Farnaz.Farrokhi@islandclinicalcounselling.ca 
  • Website: https://islandclinicalcounselling.ca/about-us/#farnaz


Fees for Session Lengths:

50-minute sessions:


This is my most popular session length, and it is a standard session for those seeking a focused therapy appointment. It allows time to address your concerns.


  • Children/Youth/Individuals: $150  
  • Couples/Families 50 Minutes:  $165


80-minute sessions:

  • $ 200 - 80 Minute Extended Therapy


EMDR Therapy Sessions:

  • 50 minutes EMDR Session: $150  
  • 80 Minutes:  $200


This session length is ideal for those needing more time to share their concerns without feeling rushed. It provides an opportunity to cover more ground, whether it's for goal setting, planning, or addressing urgent issues. 


Billing & Benefit Plan Coverage |  Registration:  CCC 11260860 | RCC 22653 

 

I am a Canadian Certified Counsellor (CCC) with the Canadian Counselling and Psychotherapy Association (CCPA) and a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) through the British Columbia Association of Clinical Counsellors (BCACC).   


Most extended health benefit plans accept receipts from RCCs and CCCs, so please check to confirm if your sessions are eligible for reimbursement. I work with clients across British Columbia and in unregulated provinces (Alberta, Saskatchewan, Manitoba, Newfoundland and Labrador, and the Yukon, Northwest Territories, and Nunavut) in Canada.

 

Direct billing is available for:
 

  • Pacific Blue Cross
     
  • Medavie Blue Cross (for Veterans Affairs Canada members)
     
  • Autism Funding Unit (AFU) — if I am approved as a service provider for your family (please confirm details with AFU directly)
     

For other insurance providers, direct billing may be possible if your plan allows. Otherwise, you can submit your receipts for reimbursement.


Book your counselling session here.

Farnaz's Affiliations + Memberships

Massage & somatic Bodywork Modalities

Lana Sheppard, Somatic Bodywork Practitioner, NHPC

 Hi, I'm Lana! 


I am the founder of Lana Grace Somatics and the newest associate at Soma House Counselling & Wellness. 


My work is rooted in a deep respect for the connection between the mind and body, and the role our nervous system plays in how we feel day to day. Since beginning my practice in 2019, I’ve been passionate about supporting people in slowing down, reconnecting with their bodies, and finding a greater sense of balance and ease.


My approach is shaped by both my training and my own lived experience. After experiencing the profound impact of holistic therapies in my own life, I chose to step away from the corporate world and follow a path that felt more aligned—supporting others through care that is intentional, trauma-informed, and compassionate.


I’m a Reiki Master and hold an international diploma in Nuad Bo-Rarn Thai Massage—a traditional Thai bodywork practice that combines assisted stretching, gentle pressure, and rhythmic movement to support flexibility, circulation, and nervous system regulation. I am also trained in Lomi Lomi, a traditional Hawaiian approach that uses continuous, flowing strokes to promote deep relaxation, support emotional release, and restore a sense of harmony within the body.


In addition, I’m certified in Thai Reflexology, Hot Stone Therapy, and Indian Head Massage, and I often integrate breathwork and meditation into my sessions. With additional studies in kinesiology and holistic nutrition, I take a whole-person, biopsychosocial approach that honours both physical and emotional well-being.


Through a somatic and trauma-informed lens, I support clients in gently tuning into their bodies, noticing patterns of tension or stress, and creating space for release and regulation. My intention is to offer sessions that feel grounding, supportive, and responsive to what your body needs in the moment.


I’m a certified member of the Natural Health Practitioners of Canada (https://www.nhpcanada.org) and am currently completing advanced training as a trauma-informed, somatic, and holistic Master Level Yoga Teacher.


At the heart of my work is a simple intention: to create a space where you can feel safe, supported, and more at home in your body.

Service offerings:

 Massage & Bodywork Modalities

  • Nuad Bo-Rarn Thai Massage (assisted stretching + movement-based therapy) 
  • Lomi Lomi (rhythmic, flowing relaxation massage) 
  • Thai Reflexology 
  • Hot Stone Therapy 
  • Indian Head Massage


Somatic & Body-Based Support

  • Trauma-informed bodywork 
  • Nervous system regulation 
  • Stress and tension release 


Mind–Body Practices

  • Breathwork 
  • Meditation 
  • Somatic awareness and grounding practices

Treatment Fees

Holistic Somatic Massage: 60 mins $95 | 90 mins $135 |  120 mins $180


Reiki: 60 mins $85 


Hot Stone- deeply relaxing and therapeutic: 60 Mins $105 | 90 mins $145 | 120 mins $190


Please note that I am a certified member of the Natural Health Practitioners of Canada, which means that some insurance companies might cover my services. To confirm, if you have such a plan, please check with your benefits provider. 

Hours of Operation, and Contact Information

Location & Availability


I operate Lana Grace Somatics out of Soma House Counselling & Wellness as an Associate, grounded in the belief that a holistic, mind–body approach can support meaningful change—especially for those experiencing stress, anxiety, or a sense of feeling stuck in their bodies.


All one-on-one sessions are offered in-person at Soma House Counselling & Wellness. Retreats and workshops will be located elsewhere. 


Practice Days: Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday (Hours TBD)

Contact Information: thaimassagebc@gmail.com |  250-816-9997

Book a Session: Please stay tuned for how you can book with me! 


Lana's Membership

Our Furry Animal-Assisted Support Team

Sir. Courtland: The Regal Ruler of Comfort & Ruler

Miss Braya Bear: A Golden Heart with a Playful Spirit

Miss Braya Bear: A Golden Heart with a Playful Spirit

Sir Courtland isn’t just any cat—he’s a dapper, treat-loving, therapy superstar! This charming gentleman started life on a bit of a rough road, growing up in an abandoned property with cerebellar hypoplasia, a condition where a kitten’s brain doesn’t fully develop before birth, making them wobbly and uncoordinated, but they can still live

Sir Courtland isn’t just any cat—he’s a dapper, treat-loving, therapy superstar! This charming gentleman started life on a bit of a rough road, growing up in an abandoned property with cerebellar hypoplasia, a condition where a kitten’s brain doesn’t fully develop before birth, making them wobbly and uncoordinated, but they can still live happy lives with extra care! Luckily, his amazing Foster Momma Amber nursed him back to health, and he became the beloved therapy cat at the Nanaimo Family Life Association (NFLA).


But fate had grander plans! During her clinical counselling practicum at NFLA, Farnaz and Sir Courtland formed an unbreakable bond. Now, this distinguished feline has upgraded his royal quarters to Soma House, where he “works” hard—mostly for Temptations treats, warm cuddles, and the occasional noble nap. With his gentle soul and regal presence, Sir Courtland continues to bring comfort, joy, and just the right amount of purr-fection to everyone he meets. 

Miss Braya Bear: A Golden Heart with a Playful Spirit

Miss Braya Bear: A Golden Heart with a Playful Spirit

Miss Braya Bear: A Golden Heart with a Playful Spirit

Braya Bear isn’t just an adorable Goldendoodle—she’s a therapeutic animal support dog with a gift for bringing comfort and joy to those around her. With her boundless energy and expressive personality, she knows exactly how to brighten someone’s day. One scritch behind the ears, and—just like that—you’ve got a loyal friend for life.


But li

Braya Bear isn’t just an adorable Goldendoodle—she’s a therapeutic animal support dog with a gift for bringing comfort and joy to those around her. With her boundless energy and expressive personality, she knows exactly how to brighten someone’s day. One scritch behind the ears, and—just like that—you’ve got a loyal friend for life.


But like everyone, Braya sometimes feels overwhelmed, too. She has a sensitive heart and needs to be approached with gentleness and understanding. The best way to say hello? Offer your hand for a sniff, and let her come to you when she’s ready.


Whether she’s offering a calming presence, bringing a smile with her joyful spirit, or simply curling up beside someone in need of comfort, Braya Bear’s golden heart shines brightest when she’s helping others. With her love, warmth, and intuitive nature, she’s more than a companion—she’s a source of healing and happiness.

Relic: Heart-Melter & Gentle Reminder of Resilience

Miss Braya Bear: A Golden Heart with a Playful Spirit

Relic: Heart-Melter & Gentle Reminder of Resilience

 Relic isn’t just a senior rescue cat—he’s a bit of a local legend with a fan club across Vancouver Island cheering him on every step of the way.


Like many animals, Relic was once a victim of the “throwaway cat” mentality—but his story didn’t end there. With care, consistency, and community, his next chapter became one of healing, connecti

 Relic isn’t just a senior rescue cat—he’s a bit of a local legend with a fan club across Vancouver Island cheering him on every step of the way.


Like many animals, Relic was once a victim of the “throwaway cat” mentality—but his story didn’t end there. With care, consistency, and community, his next chapter became one of healing, connection, and hope.


  When Relic first arrived at Soma House, he was cautious—firmly in “I’ll observe you first,” reflecting an avoidant-anxious attachment. Over time, he’s learned that connection can be safe, and now, on his own terms, it shows in a soft meow, a gentle nuzzle, or a quiet ask for scritches.  


Relic’s story is all about resilience, hope, and the power of community. He reminds us that healing doesn’t happen overnight—but with the right people (and maybe a few treats), trust can grow, hearts can soften, and connection can find its way back in.

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